DEALING WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE
Negative people bring your mood down with their pessimism and general sense of distrust. Try to understand why people are so negative. Some people live in fear. Most have thin skin.
If you look at it from this perspective, some people negativity is a cry for help. Some have a desire for control. If you give them what they want respect, love, and the control they crave. It will be unproductive.
By fulfilling their desire you will make the situation worse. Negative people bring others down. No matter if it's a friend, coworker, child, or boss. Negativity can be contagious, and if you don't take action to protect your mindset, you may find your mood infected with hostility.
Don't allow yourself to become infected with toxic negativity. A difficult person is probably locked into a negative mindset that is part of the fabric of his or her personality.
The only person whose happiness you can control is your own. The best way to protect yourself from a negative person is to be confident and secure.
They will try to make you doubt your abilities and try to stop you from pursuing your dreams. Don't let them.
CARL JUNG: Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.
You may need to change friends, change your number or even change jobs. Change is a great thing in life. You only get one life. Do not ever be afraid of change or to change.
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