LET GO OF TOXIC PEOPLE

                                          LET GO OF TOXIC PEOPLE

Leaving any relationship is difficult. Leaving a bad one isn't necessarily any easier. It often takes as much resourcefulness, energy, and strength to stay in a bad relationship as it does to leave. People need people, but sometimes the cost is a heavy one. 

When it's a toxic relationship, the breakage can be far-reaching. A bad relationship may consist of your joy feels stolen,sadness, you just feel bad all the time. 

A thing that you can do is to keep  a record of how you feel in the relationship, the good, and the bad. If writing isn't your thing, write down how you feel every day, take a photo of our face at the same time every day. You'll see it in your eyes. 

You matter, your needs matter. They always has.That will mean putting yourself first on your list.

Take a healthy adjustment to an unhealthy situation. In most relationships one person may be the person that reach and the other person retreats. In unhealthy relationships the roles stay the same. But in healthy relationships, there is balance or the roles are shift around. 

Be honest what you want from the relationship. Whatever you choose to do, do it from a place of strength,not from a place of helplessness. Remember not making a decision is making a decision. 

At the end of the day fight for you the way you would fight for anyone you love, boldly and bravely.

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